How to be a Woman by Caitlin Moran

As a male reader of this acclaimed novel from Caitlin Moran it was an opportunity to delve into the mysterious world of the opposite sex! And I have to say, I enjoyed it.

Yes women are mysterious, strange and complicated creatures – but then we knew that already. Indeed, this is part of the main issues around the difference between men and women.

Men know they will never understand women, so they don’t try to. Likewise, women want to understand men, but this is where they differ. Women will constantly try to work men out and will spend years trying to achieve it, but in the end will ultimately fail. Therefore, both sexes remain mystified by the other but women have put in a lot more work!

Similarly, there would not be a ‘How to be a Man’ equivalent of this book. Men don’t want to be told how they should act, especially from another man! It would have to be written by a woman and then it would sell. In fact, I think Moran is the perfect person for that job!

She is incredibly funny and has a page-turning witty prose which will have you laughing out loud. Yes, women will be able to share common ground on many issues, the problems around the wrong size bra for instance, but there are still many areas which men would find interesting to read. There is a lot to be enjoyed about this book for everyone.

Moran touches on a lot of major social issues within the novel. Pornography, puberty, relationships, feminism, sexism, abortion, motherhood and female role models are all covered. In fact the chapter which looks at the difference between Katie Price and Lady Gaga offers an interesting insight into the celebrities’ influence on young females.

There are times when you think Moran will use these issues to blame men for causing the problems women face. Sometimes she does, but sometimes she acknowledges that women have played their part in causing some of those issues too, sometimes its society’s fault and sometimes it’s just the way humans are.

In the end Moran admits it’s not really a novel about how to be a woman, but more about how to be a good human being. I’ll raise a glass to that!

The Review of Books score: 4/5

Comments

Popular Posts